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Wallflower New Member Location: Pucca Town Age: 17 Gender: Female Friends Items	Posted: Wed Jun 11, 2008 3:22 am    Post subject: Why do people have a problem with girls being tomboys?? Hey guys, I’m a tomboy and people are always asking me “why don’t you wear makeup?” and “why do you wear these kinda clothes?” and “why is your hair short?” and things like dat… it drives me crazy.. I just want to see what you guys think.. what r your thoughts about this??.. PS: just to let you know, m straight..haha.. coz most people think that if you r a tomboy, then u r a lesbo.. sheesh
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LSD Location: dHaRaN Age: 21 Gender: Male Friends Items	Posted: Mon Jun 16, 2008 5:21 pm    Post subject: Re: Why do people have a problem with girls being tomboys?? Wallflower wrote: Hey guys, I’m a tomboy and people are always asking me “why don’t you wear makeup?” and “why do you wear these kinda clothes?” and “why is your hair short?” and things like dat… it drives me crazy.. I just want to see what you guys think.. what r your thoughts about this??.. PS: just to let you know, m straight..haha.. coz most people think that if you r a tomboy, then u r a lesbo.. sheesh There's nothing wrong being a tomboy or not being girlish as some girls are. I know girls who are not "TOMBOYs" at all but they feel like a DUDE in front of some girls just because some girls are tooo GIRLISH nothing wrong being a tomboy, nothing wrong not wearing make ups, and nothing wrong the clothes you want to wear, its you and its your identity and how you want yourself to be and i reckon thats what makes you satisfied. got no comments about being a lesbian if one is a tomboy .. lol had never heard of it before ,, dont thin its true . regards, LSD
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RgmSend cFc rox Joined: 26 Feb 2008 Total posts: 15 Location: uk Gender: Male Friends Items	Posted: Wed Jun 18, 2008 3:32 am    Post subject: mmmm I think.. Tomboy.....mmmmm.....???? Its my personal view hai .......I dont really get attracted wid these type of galz. but its not bad indeed there r guys who prefer tommy gals. N I think an average guy always wants his gal bit a girlish......ni anywayzz LSD seems interested in u.....lol tc
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Wallflower New Member Location: Pucca Town Age: 17 Gender: Female Friends Items	Posted: Wed Jun 18, 2008 5:34 pm    Post subject: THanx a lot LSD..dats wat i wantd 2 hear..or in dis case..read..n ya its my identity n dats who i m..haha..next time if som1 asks me dose questions..m gonna say dose things u wrote..haha...cool...cool n RgmSend..talkin abt guys nt gettin attracted 2 tomboy girls..i dnt really care abt dat leh.. anyway thanx fr da replies guys...
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RgmSend cFc rox Joined: 26 Feb 2008 Total posts: 15 Location: uk Gender: Male Friends Items	Posted: Wed Jun 18, 2008 7:11 pm    Post subject: hey hey.. I didn't say guys dont attracted wid tomboy galz at all....... I mean huncha ni aba..... eyes get attention 2 galz who's got nice dressup n pretty loking ....... thats it I didnt meant 2 heart hai just told the fact indeed.
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darklord99 Joined: 19 Feb 2007 Total posts: 1369 Friends Items	Posted: Fri Jun 27, 2008 4:30 pm    Post subject: Re: Why do people have a problem with girls being tomboys?? Wallflower wrote: Hey guys, I’m a tomboy and people are always asking me “why don’t you wear makeup?” and “why do you wear these kinda clothes?” and “why is your hair short?” and things like dat… it drives me crazy.. I just want to see what you guys think.. what r your thoughts about this??.. PS: just to let you know, m straight..haha.. coz most people think that if you r a tomboy, then u r a lesbo.. sheesh whoa!!! what a topic... actually i dont really like the term tomboy..makes me feel like i'm talin abt mark twain's tom and more importantly "tom" as in a boy... so from now on i'll just refer it as "babe" . so i've absolutely no problem with girls bein a babe. actually i think its great.. i absolutely adore girls lookin like a babe. actually i'm more attracted to babe than just normal girls. u know somethin.. if u've watched teen movies.. i love the girls dressed up in all black .. with dark eye liners and things like that.. i donno if they fall in "babe" category .. but still love them.. dress the hell u like it as.. or not..
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LSD Location: dHaRaN Age: 21 Gender: Male Friends Items	Posted: Fri Jun 27, 2008 9:57 pm    Post subject: Nice one darklord!
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THe_GHosT Inter Member Joined: 19 Feb 2008 Total posts: 293 Location: pOkHaRa Age: 16 Gender: Male Friends Items	Posted: Fri Aug 08, 2008 3:47 pm    Post subject: No idea !!
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Imelda_The_Seamstress Junior Member Gender: Female Friends Items	Posted: Thu Aug 14, 2008 11:46 am    Post subject: Maybe its only my head, but I've heard almost every girl claim that she is/was a Tomboy, be it at the moment or been so at one point of time. These phrases are not new I presume, "when I was younger, I was a complete tomboy" or "I am a tomboy" or "I don't apparently look like one, but I am a complete tomboy at heart". Phew! Being in a "state" of Tomboy-ness is perfectly fine as far as one's natural being is concerned, but equally fine are the comments attached to it. You can't blame people having problems with that in this cynical world where everything is sought to be precise when it comes to an individual's opinion. If you are a girl by birth, people expect you to be so in action. Not condemning the choice though. It still is fine. Tomboys are far more privileged than the boys who act feminine when it comes to being picked up. Tomboy-ism is almost an almost socially accepted social phenomena, while AliceGirl-ism is so not. (I just introduced the term AliceGirl to the world. Alice being the male alternative for Tom literally, no better term.) Scene 1. A- "Look! A Tomboy. B- Oh. Okay. Scene 2. A- Look an Alicegirl. B- Haha. Queer. Lets throw whatever we can find at him. A- No no. Its her. Haha. G- I am in too. And thats natural too. A guy who acts like a girl is way more in trouble. Girls don't have to explain all the time about their sexuality, men do. That was just to boost you up, there are things far worse. So stop caring.
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Wallflower New Member Location: Pucca Town Age: 17 Gender: Female Friends Items	Posted: Thu Aug 14, 2008 4:31 pm    Post subject: Ya thanx Imelda..and I do agree with you about tomboy-ism and AliceGirl-ism..
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Imelda_The_Seamstress Junior Member Gender: Female Friends Items	Posted: Sun Aug 17, 2008 8:34 am    Post subject:
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phyzics mYktm Junkie Friends Items	Posted: Sun Aug 17, 2008 9:04 am    Post subject: I have absolutely no problem with girls being tomboys... in fact, i'd love to have a tomboy friend... yesh.. @Imelda: are you thanking wallflower coz she thanked you or because she agreed with you?
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Imelda_The_Seamstress Junior Member Gender: Female Friends Items	Posted: Sun Aug 17, 2008 10:03 am    Post subject: Theres a friend for you in waiting right here in the forum in that case. Thanks for thanking me unexpectedly while I was expecting something else.
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phyzics mYktm Junkie Friends Items	Posted: Sun Aug 17, 2008 11:07 am    Post subject: I believe the journey to friendship has to be spontaneous (haumm..i could be defending my OWN actions here.. hmm... gosh! i AM defending myself... this is a revelation)... the initial spark is never spontaneous in reality.. one has to act first, right... the question of spontaneity arises later... blah blah blah... i need kittens Quote: Thanks for thanking me unexpectedly while I was expecting something else. I don't think i thanked you... but do tell me what you were expecting? I'm a genie in a bottle baby
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Imelda_The_Seamstress Junior Member Gender: Female Friends Items	Posted: Sun Aug 17, 2008 1:21 pm    Post subject: I was only offering a suggestion. Since you said Quote: I have absolutely no problem with girls being tomboys... in fact, i'd love to have a tomboy friend... yesh.. I assumed you don't have a tomboy for a friend as yet. And Wallflower here is a Tomboy, I thought you could try getting in her friend's zone and finally step on what you'd love to have. You didn't thank me right. But you asked Quote: @Imelda: are you thanking wallflower coz she thanked you or because she agreed with you? So I said in response Quote: Thanks for thanking me unexpectedly while I was expecting something else. Genie eh? I know.. embarrassment.
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